I've been (was) following a neogaf thread about this whole issue. The amount of people over there who are just mentally incapable of discerning the difference between sexual harassment and normal trash talk, while not surprising, is still really disheartening. I actually got myself banned (a right of passage?) for commenting on the ridiculousness of someone else getting banned for actually making sense.
The thread is pretty much dead now, but there are some great replies from Shawn Elliott and his buddy Rory trying to inject some sanity starting around page 15 or so...